Night

 

I don’t remember when he comes in, the little one. He comes every night with small hands and cold feet and worms his way under the covers on my side. I make my arm his pillow, always – a holdover from the days I nursed him and feared losing him over the edge.

 

Those days are long over, that chapter in my life closed. He’s four now, five next spring. But not too old to come searching for my arms each night. And so I open them gladly, knowing this won’t always be. Though my hip aches and my shoulder numbs.

 

But embracing one means turning my back on another. And so my partner is without comfort when the nightmare begins. I am torn. Still attached to the little one, I reach back with my free arm, feel around in the dark until I find the man’s spine.  Then I rub. Up. Down. I cradle one and massage the war out of the other.

 

It clings, this one. He shakes, whimpers, thrashes. The war lingers and so I am stuck in this in between, awkwardly straining backwards to nurse the past, while not letting go of what’s in front of me.

 

Finally, gratefully, the fitfulness ends and I am free. And I know what I must do.

 

The little one, he slides from under the quilt at my whispering and stands, wobbling. His voice cracks. “Mom, will you carry me?” So I scoop up the babe and walk under his weight with my own wobbly legs, turning and inching carefully sideways through doors.

 

I stop at the bathroom because, this little one, he wets most nights and I slide his feet to the floor. He fumbles with his pajamas and then misses the toilet almost entirely.  Thankful it’s not sheets, I usher him back through the doorway. I do not bother with the mess. Tomorrow.

 

Finally I make my way back to the soldier, the sufferer. He has adjusted in my absence, slinging one long knee across the shared middle. So I mold myself to fit the open space, to fit him. Though my hip aches and my shoulder numbs.

 

-Jessica

 

Linking up with Unwrapping His Promises today and Life: Unmasked.

 

Comments

  1. Although the stress is different, the mothering is the same.. so to this I can relate. Beautifully written.
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  2. This is beautiful. Jess, you truly have a gift.

  3. Tanya Marlow says:

    This was so beautiful. I think I remember a previous post of yours on this theme – beautiful too. Coming via joy in this journey – nice to check in with you, as ever!
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  4. Oh, the love of a wife and mother! My little one still comes in at night sometimes, too. I’m so glad that he can find comfort by nestling close. You shared beautiful words here. I agree with the previous commenter…you have a gift!
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  5. Oh, the love of a wife and mother! My little one still comes in at night sometimes, too. I’m so glad that he can find comfort by nestling close. You shared wonderful words here. I agree with the previous commenter…you have a gift!
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  6. My youngest did this EVERY NIGHT until he was about 4-1/2. But his dad would throw a tempter tantrum, because he didn’t like to share his half of the bed. So, I took a crib mattress and put sheets and blankets and a pillow on it. I kept it under my bed during the day, but pulled in out so it was on the floor right next to me before I went to bed. Cuddle Bug loved his “little bed,” and would just climb into that without even waking me up. He’s 6 now, and would still come into my bed every night, except that I now sleep on a twin-sized bed and there just isn’t enough room! But I keep the radio on his room, and that (and sharing a bed with his brother) helps to keep him company if we wakes up in the middle of the night.
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  7. What an incredible image you just painted.
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