5 Signs You’ve Been Abroad Too Long

If you’ve been abroad for long you’ve noticed that your host culture has a way of creeping up on you. What was initially foreign slowly becomes normal. You begin to adopt the practices of your surroundings.

 

5 tongue-in-cheeks signs that you've been abroad too long.

 

Which, inevitably, comes back to bite you the next time you arrive on the familiar shores of home. Below are five signs that you’ve been abroad for too long. :)

 

1. You Pick Up Local Slang

 

You know you’ve been abroad for too long when you find yourself getting ridiculously excited by local slang from your home country. I never thought I used much slang until I traveled abroad and phased out my usage as I realized that non English speakers didn’t always understand what I meant. It’s perhaps no wonder then that when a fellow Brit I’d just met in New Zealand said she was ‘just nipping to the loo’ I became way too over excited. I was great hearing someone else use such a common phrase back home (FYI it means going to the toilet).

On the other hand, being English I say things like trousers instead of pants. We just say pants for underwear, and I still have a little giggle to myself every time some says ‘pants’, so living abroad can be pretty amusing too! It’ll be interesting to know how much Kiwi slang I’ve picked up while being in New Zealand, ‘Jandals’ have replaced ‘Flip flops’, and ‘no worries’ has replaced ‘you’re welcome’.

– Gemma from Gemma Jane Adventures

 

2. You Haggle

 

Signs you've been abroad too long.

Once upon a time the thought of bartering a price stopped me cold. It’s about as far from my American culture as you can get. But recently while in Sri Lanka I found myself talking a tuk tuk driver down on his price without giving it a second thought.

You’re never going to pay local prices, and that’s okay. But usually you can shave a little off the “tourist tax”.

 

3. You Expect Great Service

 

Signs you've been abroad too long.

 

Ideas about customer service completely morph while you’re abroad. Living in Korea, I’ve become somewhat of a spoiled-brat. Servers at restaurants come to your beck and call at the push of a button (literally) because tables come equipped with “ding-dong” bells to get the waitstaff’s attention. After every shopping purchase, you are usually given full-sized samples of cool products like socks and nail polish remover.

When I went back to the USA for a quick visit, I was appalled to see that a simple haircut with shampoo cost more than $40 after tips! In Korea, not only do you get your hair shampooed, conditioned, and rinsed, but you also get an unlimited amount of refreshments and snacks served to you including ice cream and to top it of, you get a head, back, AND hand massage! And you are almost attended by two people at the very least. The total cost: 12,000 won or $10, no tipping required. When my brother came to visit, I took him out for a haircut. Let’s just say his standards have changed too.

-Izzy from The Next Somewhere

 

4. You Cut In Line

 

Signs you've been abroad too long.

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Line? What line? Anyone who’s been abroad long learns that there’s no such thing as an orderly queue. And if you want to get what you need this side of Sunday, you’re going to need to assert yourself. And stand uncharacteristically close to others.

Recently at an airport in India I realized (in hindsight) that I had cut to the front of a line in a restaurant. Twice! The poor westerners in line must have thought I was terribly rude.

 

5. You Think in Too Many Languages

 

I am an Indian brought up in Dubai, moved to Uk and now I live in Belgium. I have lived long in Belgium and we order a beer saying ”een pintje” – One pint in Dutch. When I was in India last time for a trip, I ended up saying the same at a bar.

-VIshanth from Vishualization

If you’re attempting to learn the local language you’ll find your mind constantly working through how to say something in your language and the second language. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve found myself in the shower conjugating verbs. Or lying in bed at night and have a wandering thought demand to be translated.

 


 

All of this is said, tongue-in-cheek, of course. Is there really such a thing as being abroad too long? :) And there are so many more that could be listed. We had a lot of fun coming up with a bunch over on our facebook page.

What would you add to the list? :)

 



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Comments

  1. Loved this post. I’ve lived in five countries other than my home country. All the above are true.

  2. Haggling is the only way to survive out here. I love that there is no comprehension of fixed prices :P Great list and thanks for letting me be a part of it!

  3. Haha this is so true! I’ve been living in Ireland for 10 years and my husband (from here) always makes fun of me if I say something he perceives as ‘too Irish’! I guess mixed with what remains of my Italian accent, it must sound pretty funny to his ears

    • Years ago we lived in Germany. After returning to the states, even a year or two later, sometimes I would say “NO!” to the kids in German on accident. Lol.

  4. Its great all the things we pick up from traveling what we learn along the way and how it changes our expectations of people and places

  5. Funny that you mention expecting great service, as that’s what I feel I experience when I return home. True, overseas service is attentive, but in my experience, it’s less friendly than US restaurants, at least in France/Italy. Maybe I just need to travel to some other places and update my international service thoughts.

    • I’m sure location is a factor. There are cons too, of course. The creepiest part to me is when the server/waiter just stands there right next to you waiting for your next desire. This happened to us this week and it was so awkward.

  6. These are great. Must move to Korea now! I have noticed that since we have been in the US I speak Spanish some times out of habit, just last week I said en serio? to someone instead of seriously! I didn’t even notice until Al pointed it out to me.

  7. I look forward to visiting home soon. This is really going to be interesting. It has been 4 years since I set foot in the USA.

  8. Matthew and Heather says:

    Except for the customer service I agree with you on these. In a lot of countries finding good to great customer service is difficult. But the cutting in line cracks me up – so true.

  9. haha :-D I had a good laugh reading these and so can relate to all the points here! I have lived in North America, England, New Zealand and too long in each of those places. Now going back to Bangladesh after 19 years, and getting ready for some culture shock!

  10. Allison Fun Family Vacations says:

    This is an awesome post! I MUST go to Korea and get my hair done!!

    • I had a similar experience in a salon in India. I had some time to kill between trains so I hit up the mall in Delhi. I got a nice pedicure for 8 bucks and they kept bringing me (and my teenage daughter) cups of coffee and tea and bottles of water.

  11. You do end up getting some shades of these – like I know I start repeating foreign phrases in my regular conversations. Nice post…loved reading it.

  12. While in Rome, be a Roman, the phrase says it all.

  13. Melody Pittman says:

    omg I find myself doing 2 of these for sure when I am in a place too long- haggling and picking up the local slang. i come back to my family and they are like “what the hell”? ;) nice post!

  14. All so true, though I’d like some decent haggling skills!

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